Thirteen Years of a Busy Woman's Life by Mrs. Alec-Tweedie
Published in 1912, Thirteen Years of a Busy Woman's Life is Ethel Alec-Tweedie's personal account of the period following her husband's sudden death. Left with two young sons and limited means, she made a bold decision: she would support her family by writing. This launched her into an extraordinary decade-plus of global travel, professional hustle, and social navigation that most women of her time could only dream of.
The Story
The book follows Ethel's journey from grief to global citizen. It's structured around her adventures, from the bustling streets of London's literary scene to the rugged landscapes of Mexico and the Nordic countries. We see her meticulously researching her travel books, charming (or confronting) foreign officials, and dealing with the practical nightmares of travel in the early 1900s. Woven through it all is the constant thread of her life as a mother, managing her household and her sons' education from afar. The narrative is less a strict plot and more a vibrant collection of episodes that paint a picture of a woman constructing a new, independent life piece by daring piece.
Why You Should Read It
Ethel's voice is the star here. She's funny, perceptive, and refreshingly lacking in self-pity. Reading her feels like having a conversation with the most well-traveled, no-nonsense friend you wish you had. You get the sense of her constant calculation—how to be respectable enough to maintain her social standing, but bold enough to get the job done. Her observations on the countries she visits are sharp, and her asides about the challenges of being a woman in a man's professional world are timeless. It's not a polemic on women's rights; it's a demonstration of them in action.
Final Verdict
This book is a perfect fit for readers who love real-life stories of unconventional women, armchair travel enthusiasts, and anyone who enjoys a good, personality-driven memoir. If you like the spirit of someone like Nellie Bly but prefer a more literary, observational style, you'll meet your match in Ethel. It's a fascinating slice of social history that proves adventure, resilience, and a great deal of hard work are never out of fashion.
This book is widely considered to be in the public domain. It is available for public use and education.